With the departure of love, our behavior also changes. We begin to send signals to alert the partner that something is happening. If someone knows where to look, he is very quickly able to notice the difference at least in words. Well, that’s right… what words do men who no longer love use and say?
do as you see fit
This sounds very similar to “It’s your problem.” It means that your partner doesn’t care about your problems and it doesn’t matter to him what decision you make. A partner who cares will always try to help you find a solution, and already, above all, he will want to listen and show his support.
You exaggerate
There are times in a relationship when something will simply make us uncomfortable and we want to talk about it, and in response we hear “you’re exaggerating again.” Such a response makes us start to feel guilty, so in such a situation you should calmly analyze the matter and talk to your partner about your emotions and doubts.
This is your problem
Such a sentence is tantamount to saying that the partner is simply not interested in our problem. He is not concerned about our emotions and does not react when we ask him for help. Such an attitude says enough.
I don’t believe you!
Such a sentence, of course, is completely appropriate if you have something behind your ears and the man undoubtedly sees it. The problem begins to arise when you are innocent, and your partner can’t believe you anyway. The reason? This is very often due to insecurity or an attempt to dominate. A partner who no longer feels anything will use these words to continue the argument. After all, someone who loves will at least try to listen and try to understand.
I really love you!
It seems innocent – after all, it is a declaration of love, but “really”? Love is shown in simple words and actions. The word “really” is used to convince his partner (and perhaps himself) that love still burns in his heart.
