There are always ways to make the man you love think about you. And psychologists will reveal them to us now.
The man who will think of you is the one you’re important to.
But not because he burns with desire to have you in bed. I mean, not just for that. Carnal passions are a huge “catalyst” for love, but, unfortunately, they pass so quickly… We get fed up with them. And when that happens, when we get saturated, if we don’t have that other thing to hold us together, the relationship is lost. The other, we mean that thing that makes you tremble when you look deep into the soul. There is no word for it. But we all know what it’s about.
If you’re important to him on many counts, he’ll think about you around the clock. He’ll wonder if you’re okay, if you need anything, if you feel lonely without him. And he’ll rush to you…
If you run after him like a puppy, he won’t think about you.
Why should he? Who thinks about something that is constantly at his disposal? It’s just that the bar is very low. And you’ve lowered it yourself without even realizing it. You want this man and you’re showing it to him in every way. But “open cards” are a point of pride only in Hollywood movies with a happy ending. In real life, they’re a plague. If you want to lose someone, the quickest way is to do just that – run after him. There’s a time for everything under the sun, it even says so in the Holy Scriptures. In the beginning of a relationship, hastily taken off feelings can only mess things up.
If you’re constantly pushing him away, he won’t think about you either.
A small dose of unavailability may be an incentive, but too much of it is just … like chasing this man away directly. You shouldn’t take chances with such tactics because they very often work in the wrong direction, psychologists warn. Even if he was thinking about you at first, once he meets an obvious rebuff and you show him in no uncertain terms that you’re not interested in him, don’t expect him to keep doing it! You have to throw at least a tiny bit of bait if you want to catch the fish.
If you show him that he’s different to you than everyone else, he’ll keep thinking about you
Each of us is a slave to our own ego. And the bigger it is, the deeper the bondage. Even as children we want to feel the approval in the eyes of our loved ones. It gives us the incentive to keep trying. As we grow older, we are not much different in this. No one will feel comfortable next to a person who considers them worthless and insignificant. But everyone will want to spend more time with someone who values them and doesn’t shy away from showing it. Someone who doesn’t skimp on praise when, of course, it’s deserved.
He’ll think of you if you stand out from other women yourself
That is, if your behavior is different from that of most of them. Of those who think only of themselves. But if you show him that he is important to you, that you feel and enjoy his uniqueness, believe me, this man will not stop thinking about you!
We are born alone in this world even though we are surrounded by many people. And that’s why we are constantly looking for each other – like the pot and the slipper. Like Cinderella’s dainty shoe that fits no other foot…
If you found yourself, you’d be foolish to get lost … Remember that!
