It’s sad and pathetic when we are in love with someone and they don’t reciprocate. Sometimes, even two people can be together for years and that magical feeling we all dream of never comes. Love can be replaced by other feelings, such as caring and respect, but they are not enough to make us feel happy. When the spark isn’t there, it’s just not the same…
And the most unfortunate is when we are devoted to someone whose only motive to be with us is interest. Be it material or otherwise.
But isn’t hope the last to die, even if we feel deep down that our loved one doesn’t have true feelings, we still hope that will change over time. That at some point things will fall into place and love will reign between the two.
Alas, that doesn’t always happen. And if the signs that our relationship will never evolve to that level begin to show clearly, even though our heart is breaking with pain, we need to be brave and meet the truth head on. Because that will allow us to move on with our lives before it is too late.
If you don’t have an emotional connection with him
If the man next to you never lets you near him, even though you make tremendous efforts to make it happen, if an emotional connection has never emerged between the two of you, it’s a very bad sign. It clearly speaks of this person’s unwillingness or inability to love you. An emotionally distant man has no way of maintaining a long-term relationship. If, when you are around him, you don’t feel the sparks, the excitement, the warmth, it’s probably because they just aren’t there.
If it’s only physical contact that keeps you together
Signs that a man lacks the ability to build an emotional connection include his unwillingness to share emotions with you. Pay attention to whether he talks about himself and his feelings. Does he lack empathy for others? Then he won’t show it to you either, so don’t bury your head in the sand like an ostrich…
If he doesn’t look at you with love
Very often you can tell how a man feels about you just by the look on his face. If you sense that he is looking at you with indifference and even, God forbid, with contempt, he is probably not in love with you.
If he does not like to be around you, but prefers to be alone
When you are around him, you feel like a burden. You beg him to do something together, but he always has something more important to do. And as soon as you directly ask him why he likes spending time with other people but not you, he just tells you that these are fabrications.
If he’s with you for some benefit
Among the most obvious signs that he will never love you is your suspicion that he is with you for gain – for example, comfort, financial support, other social or material benefits.
If you cannot discuss the future with him
If it is problematic to talk to him about the future of your relationship because he avoids this topic every time, it is a sign that this person does not love you. And he won’t love you.
If after months of dating he’s still not sure what the status of your relationship is, that’s a clear indicator that he has no intention of committing to you.
If he says one thing and does another
If he tells you he loves you but has no time for you his actions speak louder than his words. If your needs are constantly ignored, it’s a sign that this man will not love you the way you deserve. And when there is no reciprocity in your relationship, then is there any point in maintaining it?
If he never makes amorous explanations
If he has never said “I love you” to you, even in the most physical contact of moments, it doesn’t speak well. Maybe it’s time to leave him and move on. Because, surely there’s a man out there who longs to tell you what this guy doesn’t. And not just say it, but really feel it.
If he doesn’t want your entourage to know about your relationship
Hasn’t introduced you to his friends? Doesn’t invite you anywhere where people from his entourage can meet you? Apparently, you’re not important enough to him and he thinks there’s no point in going to all that trouble just because you won’t be together soon.
If he says he’s single
A man who genuinely loves you will always present you as his mate, and he won’t hide that he’s in a relationship. The reason to do the latter is only one – he obviously does not consider your relationship as serious. And does not feel any romantic feelings on his part.
If he’s not trying to win your heart and become your hero
If he’s not willing to invest in your relationship, then it doesn’t matter if you’re perfect or not – he doesn’t care. He won’t try to get close to you and into your life. Even if he claims he likes you being together, if when it comes to actions, it proves the opposite, this man is not for you – he will simply never love you.
Don’t waste time on those who don’t want to be involved in your life
Every woman needs someone to appreciate just her.
Noticing these signs and realizing that this man will never love you is sure to open a bleeding wound in the heart.
But it’s nothing compared to the option of spending your life with a man who doesn’t love you, shows no interest in you, and puts no effort into the relationship, but only fulfills his needs.
That’s the real punishment.
